Introduction

You can design the perfect drill, understand biomechanics inside and out, and have all the right player development plans — but if you can’t communicate effectively, none of it matters.

This section is about how we talk to players. The words we choose, the questions we ask, and the feedback we give all shape how players learn and perform. In fact, a few words in the wrong place at the wrong time can completely derail a good habit.


Common Communication Mistakes Coaches Make

Even experienced coaches fall into patterns that can unintentionally hinder learning. In this section, we’ll explore issues like:

  • Overusing internal cues (like “get your elbow under the ball”) that can lead to overthinking and mechanical movement
  • Giving too much explicit instruction, when players might learn better through guided exploration
  • Focusing only on results (“make the shot”) instead of helping players understand why something worked or didn’t
  • Talking too much during slumps, when a player might need space and confidence more than correction

These aren’t just communication missteps — they’re missed opportunities for growth.


What You’ll Learn in This Section

We’ll explore simple, research-supported shifts in how you speak to players that can dramatically impact how quickly they improve — and how confidently they perform. You’ll learn:

  • The difference between internal and external cues — and when to use each
  • How to guide players through learning using implicit strategies rather than step-by-step instructions
  • The difference between knowledge of results and knowledge of process, and why the latter builds more adaptable athletes
  • How to ask guided questions that lead players toward self-discovery and ownership
  • How to build confidence with your words — not false praise, but genuine belief and buy-in
  • How to respond productively when players hit slumps — without overwhelming them with corrections

Whether you’re working with professionals or kids, your tone, timing, and phrasing can either open doors or close them. This section will help you open more doors.

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